Events & Workshops
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How It Works
We design immersive IRL & Virtual Erotic Spaces for groups and individuals, featuring facilitated experiences ranging from educational to explicitly sexual.
Blending play, pleasure, and creativity for a wide spectrum of people.
Choose your own adventure.
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Everyone is screened, age-verified and vetted.
You’ll receive our code of conduct, consent guidelines, and advice on security and anonymity based on the event.
Get dressed up, for
Virtual Events:
Decorate your background, and arrange your computer, camera, and/or microphone.
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Everyone attends the event's introduction, and no new participants are allowed in after that.
Virtual Events:
We use the “lock” feature to “close the doors.”
We use individual links (Registration required), waiting rooms, and watermarks to increase security.
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Each forLove event consists of a series of rooms that you can navigate between. Choose your own adventure based on your level of comfort.
Virtual Events:
You access each room via a private, invite-only section of this website.
Some rooms are locked for short periods during the event to create more privacy and intimacy.
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Sexy story shares and erotica readings
Guided sensuality sessions, in which erotic energy is consciously cultivated
Sex-themed games like Truth or Dare or Never-Have-I-Ever
Erotic self-pleasure sessions, with people taking turns touching themselves or making love while the group affirms them
Experiential workshops on kink, sexuality, and seduction
Fun and lighthearted activities like sex puppets and mystery porn theatre 3000
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Safety Leads
Each forLove event includes people dedicated to supporting you. They are available to anyone, at any time, throughout the event. You can always find them in the “Angel Room.”
Virtual Events:
They are clearly marked with the word “Safety” in their alias. You can find a safety person by going to the lounge, or primary meeting space at an event, and then messaging them to speak privately in a breakout room.
Hosts
Virtual Events:
All our rooms are facilitated by a host, with “HOST” in their alias. They:
1) Lead the activities in the room they’re in
2) Involve participants by calling on, encouraging, or affirming them
3) Maintain an atmosphere of safety and respect
Mute or remove anyone in the group who’s being disruptive.
Non-Monogamy Peer Support Circle
Are you seeking a supportive community where you can freely share your experiences, gain insights, and find like-minded individuals who understand your journey? Look no further!
Our group is dedicated to fostering open discussions, providing a safe haven for meaningful conversations, and promoting understanding around non-monogamy. Every seceond Tuesday of the month w/ facilitator Professor Playtime (she/they.)
New to Non-Monogamy Peer Support Circle
When you're new to non-monogamy or seeking deeper insights, it can feel challenging to know where to start, who to turn to for support, or how to ask. Our community welcomes you with open arms. We're here to foster understanding, share experiences, and provide a judgment-free environment where you can freely express yourself.
Change Is Scary - A 3 Step Process To Help Navigate Crossroads in Relationships
Are you at a crossroads in your relationship; contemplating or amidst a major change or transition? Whether you're navigating the complexities of relationships, career shifts, or personal growth, this experiential workshop facilitated by Professor Playtime of forLove, is designed to guide you through a process of reflection and renewal.
Identify: Pinpoint the moments carrying the most emotional weight.
Reflect: Explore your emotions and underlying needs without getting caught in the story.
Understand: Decode your emotions to uncover deeper insights into your values and desires.
Celebrate: Share your story with trusted individuals and celebrate your wins with a personalized ceremony.
Reframing Jealousy - Tools for Building Trust, Self-Security, and Effective Communication
What This Workshop is About
This workshop will help you unpack the roots of jealousy and insecurity, offering insights into their psychological and biological origins. Through guided exercises, reflective discussions, and practical tools, you’ll learn how to recognize, process, and communicate your emotions in healthier, more constructive ways.
What to Expect
Deep Exploration – Understand what jealousy really is and how it differs from envy.
Science & Psychology – Learn about the biological and psychological triggers of jealousy.
Personal Reflection – Identify your own jealousy triggers through guided journaling and exercises.
Actionable Strategies – Discover tools to regulate emotions, communicate effectively, and build self-esteem.
Support & Community – Engage in thoughtful discussions and learn from others in a safe, judgment-free environment.
We Need To Talk - Breaking Down Restorative Conversations
Navigating restorative conversations can be challenging and ‘sorry’s’ often just don’t cut it. Join us for an insightful online workshop focused on improving the delicate art of accountability –
Why Attend?
❣️ Enhance your communication skills.
❣️ Foster stronger and more meaningful connections.
❣️ Develop a deeper sense of personal responsibility.
❣️ Acquire practical tools for navigating challenging conversations.
Informed Sex is Saf(er) Sex - Destigmatizing STI Conversations
We’re long overdue for a shift in how we talk about sexual health.
STI/STD stigma continues to create shame, harm, and disconnection in our most intimate spaces. But here's the truth: if you’re a sexually active human, STI exposure isn’t a moral failure — it’s a statistical inevitability.
Instead of shame, let’s move towards clarity.
Instead of fear, let’s build trust.
Instead of silence, let’s have the conversation.
This workshop is for you if you’re ready to:
❣️ Feel more confident talking about your sexual health
❣️ Set boundaries that actually reflect your needs
❣️ Disclose (or receive) an active STI status with compassion
❣️ Practice consent as a collaborative, ongoing process
Embrace Transition | A 3 Step Process on Navigating Crossroads
Are you at a crossroads in your relationship; contemplating or amidst a major change or transition? Whether you're navigating the complexities of relationships, career shifts, or personal growth, this experiential workshop facilitated by Professor Playtime of forLove, is designed to guide you through a process of reflection and renewal.
Identify: Pinpoint the moments carrying the most emotional weight.
Reflect: Explore your emotions and underlying needs without getting caught in the story.
Understand: Decode your emotions to uncover deeper insights into your values and desires.
Celebrate: Share your story with trusted individuals and celebrate your wins with a personalized ceremony.
New to Non-Monogamy Peer Support Circle
When you're new to non-monogamy or seeking deeper insights, it can feel challenging to know where to start, who to turn to for support, or how to ask. Our community welcomes you with open arms. We're here to foster understanding, share experiences, and provide a judgment-free environment where you can freely express yourself.
Non-Monogamy Peer Support Circle
Are you seeking a supportive community where you can freely share your experiences, gain insights, and find like-minded individuals who understand your journey? Look no further!
Our group is dedicated to fostering open discussions, providing a safe haven for meaningful conversations, and promoting understanding around non-monogamy. Every seceond Tuesday of the month w/ facilitator Professor Playtime (she/they.)
Accountability Culture | Explore the Art & Science of Restorative Conversations
Navigating restorative conversations can be challenging and ‘sorry’s’ often just don’t cut it. Join us for an insightful online workshop focused on improving the delicate art of accountability – " Accountability Culture | The Art & Science of Restorative Conversations"
Why Attend?
❣️ Enhance your communication skills.
❣️ Foster stronger and more meaningful connections.
❣️ Develop a deeper sense of personal responsibility.
❣️ Acquire practical tools for navigating challenging conversations.
Don't miss this opportunity to refine your approach to accountability and elevate the way you apologize. Secure your spot now for "The Art of Accountability | Improving Our Apology."
New to Non-Monogamy Peer Support Circle
When you're new to non-monogamy or seeking deeper insights, it can feel challenging to know where to start, who to turn to for support, or how to ask. Our community welcomes you with open arms. We're here to foster understanding, share experiences, and provide a judgment-free environment where you can freely express yourself.
Non-Monogamy Peer Support Circle
Are you seeking a supportive community where you can freely share your experiences, gain insights, and find like-minded individuals who understand your journey? Look no further!
Our group is dedicated to fostering open discussions, providing a safe haven for meaningful conversations, and promoting understanding around non-monogamy. Every seceond Tuesday of the month w/ facilitator Professor Playtime (she/they.)
New to Non-Monogamy Peer Support Circle
When you're new to non-monogamy or seeking deeper insights, it can feel challenging to know where to start, who to turn to for support, or how to ask. Our community welcomes you with open arms. We're here to foster understanding, share experiences, and provide a judgment-free environment where you can freely express yourself.
Non-Monogamy Peer Support Circle
Are you seeking a supportive community where you can freely share your experiences, gain insights, and find like-minded individuals who understand your journey? Look no further!
Our group is dedicated to fostering open discussions, providing a safe haven for meaningful conversations, and promoting understanding around non-monogamy. Every seceond Tuesday of the month w/ facilitator Professor Playtime (she/they.)
New to Non-Monogamy Peer Support Circle
When you're new to non-monogamy or seeking deeper insights, it can feel challenging to know where to start, who to turn to for support, or how to ask. Our community welcomes you with open arms. We're here to foster understanding, share experiences, and provide a judgment-free environment where you can freely express yourself.
Non-Monogamy Peer Support Circle
Are you seeking a supportive community where you can freely share your experiences, gain insights, and find like-minded individuals who understand your journey? Look no further!
Our group is dedicated to fostering open discussions, providing a safe haven for meaningful conversations, and promoting understanding around non-monogamy. Every seceond Tuesday of the month w/ facilitator Professor Playtime (she/they.)
Painting w/ Fire: Shutter Speed for Visual Intrigue
WHAT TO EXPECT:
Ready to add some spark to your photography skills? This photography workshop is facilitated by professional Erotic Photographer, Hoku Wong of Serotonin Photography.
Join us for "Painting with Fire: Shutter Speed for Visual Intrigue" - a hands-on adventure where we turn light into art! This class is perfect for beginners and enthusiasts eager to learn the magic of long-exposure photography. Yes, you will be photographing live fire dancers. 🔥
We'll dive into the world of shutter speed, teaching you how to capture stunning light trails, glowing orbs, and fiery patterns that dance across your frame. From playful sparks to dramatic scenes, you'll discover how to harness the power of light and movement to create images that are nothing short of mesmerizing.
Bring your camera, creativity, and a sense of wonder. Let's paint with fire and ignite your passion for photography!
Embrace Transition | An Exercise on Navigating Crossroads (Copy) (Copy)
Are you at a crossroads in your relationship; contemplating or amidst a major change or transition? Whether you're navigating the complexities of relationships, career shifts, or personal growth, this experiential workshop facilitated by Professor Playtime of forLove, is designed to guide you through a process of reflection and renewal.
Identify: Pinpoint the moments carrying the most emotional weight.
Reflect: Explore your emotions and underlying needs without getting caught in the story.
Understand: Decode your emotions to uncover deeper insights into your values and desires.
Celebrate: Share your story with trusted individuals and celebrate your wins with a personalized ceremony.
Accountability Culture | Explore the Art & Science of Restorative Conversations
Navigating restorative conversations can be challenging and ‘sorry’s’ often just don’t cut it. Join us for an insightful online workshop focused on improving the delicate art of accountability – " Accountability Culture | The Art & Science of Restorative Conversations"
Why Attend?
❣️ Enhance your communication skills.
❣️ Foster stronger and more meaningful connections.
❣️ Develop a deeper sense of personal responsibility.
❣️ Acquire practical tools for navigating challenging conversations.
Don't miss this opportunity to refine your approach to accountability and elevate the way you apologize. Secure your spot now for "The Art of Accountability | Improving Our Apology."
New to Non-Monogamy Peer Support Circle
When you're new to non-monogamy or seeking deeper insights, it can feel challenging to know where to start, who to turn to for support, or how to ask. Our community welcomes you with open arms. We're here to foster understanding, share experiences, and provide a judgment-free environment where you can freely express yourself.
Non-Monogamy Peer Support Circle
Are you seeking a supportive community where you can freely share your experiences, gain insights, and find like-minded individuals who understand your journey? Look no further!
Our group is dedicated to fostering open discussions, providing a safe haven for meaningful conversations, and promoting understanding around non-monogamy. Every seceond Tuesday of the month w/ facilitator Professor Playtime (she/they.)
Accountability Culture | Explore the Art & Science of Restorative Conversations
Navigating restorative conversations can be challenging and ‘sorry’s’ often just don’t cut it. Join us for an insightful online workshop focused on improving the delicate art of accountability – " Accountability Culture | The Art & Science of Restorative Conversations"
Why Attend?
❣️ Enhance your communication skills.
❣️ Foster stronger and more meaningful connections.
❣️ Develop a deeper sense of personal responsibility.
❣️ Acquire practical tools for navigating challenging conversations.
Don't miss this opportunity to refine your approach to accountability and elevate the way you apologize. Secure your spot now for "The Art of Accountability | Improving Our Apology."
Embrace Transition | An Exercise on Navigating Crossroads (Copy)
About the Workshop:
Are you at a crossroads in your life, contemplating or amidst a major change or transition? Whether you're navigating the complexities of relationships, career shifts, or personal growth, this experiential workshop facilitated by Professor Playtime of forLove, is designed to guide you through a process of reflection and renewal.
TL/DR:
🗓 Date: Wednesday, July 24th
🕠 Time: 5:30 - 7:00 pm PST
📍 Location: Online (Zoom link provided with ticket purchase)
Tickets:
🎟 $35 ($25 for SuperBloom Members)
💰 'Give what you can' options available - no one turned away for lack of funds
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Who is this Workshop For?
This workshop is perfect for individuals facing significant transitions in their lives, such as those considering exploring non-monogamy within their relationships or anyone navigating a period of profound change. If you're seeking clarity, closure, and a roadmap for moving forward, this workshop is for you.
What to Expect:
Using a powerful exercise called "Storyboarding Your Life," we'll explore a particular area in your life and the journey to where you are today. Through guided reflection, you'll identify pivotal moments, celebrate achievements, and acknowledge unresolved emotions.
In the second part of the workshop, you'll learn practical techniques to clear unresolved emotions and honor your journey:
Identify: Pinpoint the moments carrying the most emotional weight.
Reflect: Explore your emotions and underlying needs without getting caught in the story.
Understand: Decode your emotions to uncover deeper insights into your values and desires.
Celebrate: Share your story with trusted individuals and celebrate your wins with a personalized ceremony.
Why Say Yes:
By participating in this workshop, you'll gain invaluable tools to navigate life's transitions with resilience and grace. You'll walk away with a newfound understanding of yourself, clarity about your needs, and a sense of empowerment to embrace the next chapter of your life fully.
How to Join:
Secure your spot now and embark on this transformative journey of self-discovery. Say yes to honoring your past, embracing your present, and stepping confidently into your future.
Don't miss out—reserve your spot today!
New to Non-Monogamy Peer Support Circle (
When you're new to non-monogamy or seeking deeper insights, it can feel challenging to know where to start, who to turn to for support, or how to ask. Our community welcomes you with open arms. We're here to foster understanding, share experiences, and provide a judgment-free environment where you can freely express yourself.
Non-Monogamy Peer Support Circle
Are you seeking a supportive community where you can freely share your experiences, gain insights, and find like-minded individuals who understand your journey? Look no further!
Our group is dedicated to fostering open discussions, providing a safe haven for meaningful conversations, and promoting understanding around non-monogamy. Every seceond Tuesday of the month w/ facilitator Professor Playtime (she/they.)
Embrace Transition | An Exercise on Navigating Crossroads
About the Workshop:
Are you at a crossroads in your life, contemplating or amidst a major change or transition? Whether you're navigating the complexities of relationships, career shifts, or personal growth, this experiential workshop facilitated by Professor Playtime of forLove, is designed to guide you through a process of reflection and renewal.
TL/DR:
🗓 Date: Wednesday, May 15th
🕠 Time: 5:30 - 7:00 pm PST
📍 Location: Online (Zoom link provided with ticket purchase)
Tickets:
🎟 $35 ($25 for SuperBloom Members)
💰 'Give what you can' options available - no one turned away for lack of funds
_____________________________________________
Who is this Workshop For?
This workshop is perfect for individuals facing significant transitions in their lives, such as those considering exploring non-monogamy within their relationships or anyone navigating a period of profound change. If you're seeking clarity, closure, and a roadmap for moving forward, this workshop is for you.
What to Expect:
Using a powerful exercise called "Storyboarding Your Life," we'll explore a particular area in your life and the journey to where you are today. Through guided reflection, you'll identify pivotal moments, celebrate achievements, and acknowledge unresolved emotions.
In the second part of the workshop, you'll learn practical techniques to clear unresolved emotions and honor your journey:
Identify: Pinpoint the moments carrying the most emotional weight.
Reflect: Explore your emotions and underlying needs without getting caught in the story.
Understand: Decode your emotions to uncover deeper insights into your values and desires.
Celebrate: Share your story with trusted individuals and celebrate your wins with a personalized ceremony.
Why Say Yes:
By participating in this workshop, you'll gain invaluable tools to navigate life's transitions with resilience and grace. You'll walk away with a newfound understanding of yourself, clarity about your needs, and a sense of empowerment to embrace the next chapter of your life fully.
How to Join:
Secure your spot now and embark on this transformative journey of self-discovery. Say yes to honoring your past, embracing your present, and stepping confidently into your future.
Don't miss out—reserve your spot today!
Self-Love By Way of The Ancestors
The quintessential workshop w/ Ifa Doyin Tamika Marie Banks covering the what, when, where, why, and how to build a connection and practice with your Ancestors as a way to deepen into Self Love.
Come to learn, come to share, come to deepen into the beauty, rawness and richness with your Ancestral heritage. Novices to Advanced practitioners welcomed.
This workshop is not for debating Spirit; those who attend agree that our Ancestors are available for connection and are looking for/willing to learn how.
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What to Expect:
🔸 Learn how to build an Ancestor Altar
🔸 Discover what/how to offer on the Ancestor Altar
🔸 Gain awareness-building tips to connect directly with your ancestors
🔸 Align your Ancestors with your Self-Love journey
Got Consent? | Maximizing Fun in Kink & Non-monogamy
Join Susan Wright, founder and Executive Director of the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom (NCSF), for an engaging discussion on consent, best practices in kink, and the legal framework surrounding consent to kink activities.
Susan Wright has been at the forefront of advocating for the rights of adults who practice BDSM and consensual non-monogamy. Her groundbreaking research and advocacy work have had a significant impact, including clarifying that being kinky is not a mental disorder.
In this interactive discussion, Susan will share insights and best practices for effectively communicating desires and boundaries in kink relationships. Learn negotiation tips to ensure clear and enthusiastic consent from all parties involved.
360 Degree View of Ethics in the Indie Porn Industry
360 Degree View of Ethics in the Indie Porn Industry
A discussion of ethical production considerations of adult entertainment as an independent producer/creator of porn. As well as personal perspectives for people curious to know more about how to get started themselves
Releasing Sexual Shame | A Pathway to Freedom
Release Sexual Shame | A Pathway to Freedom
This workshop is designed to help you understand shame and where it comes from. You will be able to distinguish the source of shame based thinking and be able to express yourself authentically.
Healing Your Relationship to Shame will allow you to communicate your needs with love for yourself and others.
Erotic Photography | Empowering Artistic Expression
Unlock Your Artistic Potential with Erotic Photography | Empowering Artistic Expression w/ Hoku Wong
Discover the transformative power of art in a safe and inclusive environment. Join us for a hands-on workshop where you'll learn essential skills to elevate your photography practice, while respecting the boundaries and dignity of your subjects. Explore collaborative techniques, communication mastery, and practical applications to capture your vision with confidence and creativity. Sign up now to unleash your artistic potential with Erotic Photography! 🌟
New to Non-Monogamy Peer Support Circle
When you're new to non-monogamy or seeking deeper insights, it can feel challenging to know where to start, who to turn to for support, or how to ask. Our community welcomes you with open arms. We're here to foster understanding, share experiences, and provide a judgment-free environment where you can freely express yourself.
Kegel Fusion | Strength & Flexibility for Every-BODY
Welcome to "Kegel Fusion: Strength and Flexibility for Every-BODY" – a journey into the world of inclusive, pelvic floor fitness! This comprehensive workshop taught by Allison Schulte, (she/her/them/they) MFA/PTA & Founder/CEO: Pelvic Sanctuary, is designed to provide a holistic understanding of Kegel exercises, ensuring the empowerment of your pelvic health through a unique blend of strength and flexibility.
Non-Monogamy Peer Support Circle
Are you seeking a supportive community where you can freely share your experiences, gain insights, and find like-minded individuals who understand your journey? Look no further!
Our group is dedicated to fostering open discussions, providing a safe haven for meaningful conversations, and promoting understanding around non-monogamy. Every seceond Tuesday of the month w/ facilitator Professor Playtime (she/they.)
Accountability Culture | Explore the Art & Science of Restorative Conversations
Navigating restorative conversations can be challenging and ‘sorry’s’ often just don’t cut it. Join us for an insightful online workshop focused on improving the delicate art of accountability – " Accountability Culture | The Art & Science of Restorative Conversations"
Why Attend?
❣️ Enhance your communication skills.
❣️ Foster stronger and more meaningful connections.
❣️ Develop a deeper sense of personal responsibility.
❣️ Acquire practical tools for navigating challenging conversations.
Don't miss this opportunity to refine your approach to accountability and elevate the way you apologize. Secure your spot now for "The Art of Accountability | Improving Our Apology."
The Art of Accountability | Improving Our Apology (virtual)
Navigating restorative conversations can be challenging and ‘sorry’s’ often just don’t cut it. Join us for an insightful online workshop focused on improving the delicate art of accountability – "The Art of Accountability | Improving Our Apology."
Why Attend?
❣️ Enhance your communication skills.
❣️ Foster stronger and more meaningful connections.
❣️ Develop a deeper sense of personal responsibility.
❣️ Acquire practical tools for navigating challenging conversations.
Don't miss this opportunity to refine your approach to accountability and elevate the way you apologize. Secure your spot now for "The Art of Accountability | Improving Our Apology."